Checking in with yourself – staying on track with health and fitness goals inspite of it all
Many years ago, a good friend of mine said that the secret to his success was that he checked in with himself regularly. No matter what leg he was on in his journey, he would take a moment or two to make sure that he was still on track. Did anything need to be changed in his routine? Did he have the right attitude for the task at hand? Was he still excited about the path he was on? If not, then what needed to change? Believe it or not, this did not have to do with weight loss but rather it had to do with business. He was a stock broker at the time.
This friend and I had lost contact many years ago. Still, I never forgot the lesson he taught me. I figured it was an important one. So I have kept it in my back pocket until this very moment. Because I think it’s important to check in with yourself on this journey. Make sure that you are still happy and excited. Make sure that you are persevering and motivating yourself. Make sure that you are creating an environment that spells WIN. And if you aren’t, then figure out what you need to do to get back on track and go for it!
This week has proven to be a difficult week for me to get my fitness in. My baby has pink eye, my oldest son has strep throat and my husband has been working way later due to server outages with certain clients. I haven’t seen the inside of the gym since Monday.
At first, I felt like my train had been driven off of my path. It felt like one of those moments where you throw your hands up and say… “what the F?!” Obviously, there is nothing I can do to change the kids being sick or my husband having to work late. Those are some of the facts of life my friend. Shit happens and sometimes you step in it. Know what I mean? And really in the grand scheme of things, this is only one off-week.
Instead of lolling around the house moping about it, I utilized the extra energy to keep moving. I cleaned and organized things I never thought to clean or organize. Sometimes, I found myself jumping around in the kitchen just for fun. Or if a good song came on the radio, I would dance to it with my daughter. 4 weeks of working out has me craving movement. Any kind of movement. My body wants to move. From couch potato to mover and shaker in 4 weeks… that’s me!
I have also been extra careful to watch what I eat. Just because I am unable to get to the gym, doesn’t mean I should throw all of my progress to the wind.
Today, I was pacing around the house wondering what else to clean (I think I have the cleanest home in America now). Then I remembered my old exercise bike in the garage. I found it buried under a whole bunch of stuff. So I moved the stuff and moved the bike back into the house. This was no small feat and took a lot of extra effort but it was totally worth it. I moved it into my living room and got 45 minutes of straight cardio on it! And after I was done I felt this calming sensation flow over my body and soul. That is what exercise does for me. It chills me out and sends me to my happy place.
So this week, when I check in with myself, i’m going to note that I overcame an obstacle and am still managing to keep on track with my goals all while smiling.



Ok I LOVE that you have your head on straight and don’t beat yourself up while still remaining realistic when things don’t go your way.
It’s hard not to have the “all or nothing” attitude when it comes to excercisig and eating right- I’m glad you seem to have found a balance
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Great post. I will have to check in on myself too.
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Yes to this – it’s so important to check in with yourself and make sure all is still well with your plans. I love how you realized you could fix your exercise problem by dragging that bike inside! Those things are heavy!
I love how we really can change our attitudes in just a short period of time!
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WTG girl! You know what they say, it’s 90% eating habits and 10% exercise. As long as you keep straight on your food choices you’re going to lose. The exercise just helps it along.
I like what your stockbroker friend told you. It reminds me of what my ex-boss and current workout partner told me a long time ago when I worked for her. She told me an easy way to never get into fat denial is to look at yourself in the mirror naked. I started doing that about a month ago and she’s right! It sucks! LOL
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nice attitude, good problem-solving! it would have been alot easier to camp out on the couch but you were too motivated for that because you’re awesome
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Keep going to that happy place.
Have a great weekend!
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It never fails to amaze me that something as easy as checking in with yourself can make a world of difference in terms of progress and motivation. I know it’s something I should probably implement as soon as I can.
Thank you!!
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